Stop ‘People Pleasing’

Stop ‘People Pleasing’

To be a success, too many women think they have to be some kind of super-human in their role and their way of being ‘good enough’ is to do it all. For it to be right they have to do it them self, make it perfect, play by someone else’s rules, be competitive or...
What are your repeating patterns?

What are your repeating patterns?

What if you have an emotional pattern playing out that keeps repeating and you keep attracting the wrong partner or no partner?⠀⠀⠀⠀ Or⠀ You have an emotional pattern playing out that keeps repeating and it holds your income potential back or your career...
No Regrets

No Regrets

This is a list of regrets shared by a palliative care nurse who cares for dying patients.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Would you tick any of those boxes?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What might your regrets be?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Is life hurtling too fast in its current direction for you to even stop for a...
How do you want to feel?

How do you want to feel?

Simplifying complex feelings It seems too simple a question? How do you want to feel? However, it is super powerful to be guided by, ‘how do I want to feel’ as apposed to, ‘what do I want to do!’ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Is your life a bit like a wall of...
Answers To Life

Answers To Life

THIS QUESTION IS A MATTER OF URGENCY. Please stop for a minute, take a deep breath, go inside your heart and mind and body and ask yourself, what am I actually devoted to?  Not only consciously but unconsciously, out of unconscious habit?  I ask because your life...
What you are seeking is seeking you

What you are seeking is seeking you

“It was exhilarating to know that I COULD get better because I had become trapped in exhaustion”. There’s no room to move when you live by the law that ‘there’s always only ever just enough’.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I was interviewing a...
Where is your Spirit?

Where is your Spirit?

In our western culture, it is not intrinsic or nurtured or even important to understand what is our spirit. I don’t mean religion.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As a recovering Christian who was bought up in a very religious environment, I have had to go on a true heroes...